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Sometimes it seemed that winter had hardly started, when Christmas came. Daddy had been home since sometime in November and, except for rare days when he could work outside, he would be home January, February and maybe March. Unless he went to Roanoke to work, which he sometimes did. He could always work there, Mama thought, that is until the depression came and there was no work, not even there.

Before the depression, Mama and Daddy eased in and out of Christmas. There were toys under the tree and new clothes to wear. Many of the toys were store bought; some, like my doll's cradle and her bed, were made by Daddy. Aunt Merica made extra doll clothes. The tree was decorated with long ropes of popcorn and cranberries, which we helped Aunt Merica string. Joe and I made chains of colored paper. There was a red tissue paper bell which folded up flat for storage, but revealed its scalloped fineness when opened and fastened back to back to hang in the window. Decorating, however, took a back seat to food preparation. Maybe that was why, during the depths of the Depression, Christmas was only partly different. Mama, Daddy and Aunt Merica said nothing to explain the fact that one Christmas morning my gift under the tree was a pair of thin cotton gloves and a dime novel. Unspoken, we children understood. In the warm kitchen, our usual big Christmas dinner simmered away. We heard that in the cities, people had neither gifts nor food.

Here, in our house, all the week preceding Christmas Sunday and Christmas Day, Mama and Aunt Merica make applesauce cake, jam cakes, and mounds of tea cakes. Peeping over the edge of the table I watched the pile grow. Daddy went to the garden hole and to the cellar and brought down sack after sack of potatoes, apples and root vegetables. He went to the smoke house and got some meat. Mama and Aunt Merica packed the sweets. These were gifts for Daddy's dead brother's family, the brother who had been killed at the flour mill.

As the depression lengthened, the Church Christmas treat became more important. At first it was just a poke of candy and an orange, given to each of us by Santa Claus who stomped (we didn't say stamped) in from the back of the church just after Uncle Charlie with a long stick tipped with fire, had lighted all the tiny white candles clipped to the big green tree. But, later, the bag became the important supply of Christmas candy and was second only to the two big boxes that John and Elizabeth, Mama's cousins, sent from Baltimore. It was John and Elizabeth's gifts that gave me my fine toys, my water color set, my escape from most of the depression's cruel Christmas blows and somewhat eased my Mother's worries.

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This picture, taken in the parlor some time in the 1960s shows a tiny tree, and the tufted parlor sofa.


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